November 10, 2008
Forced Family Fun (FFF)
Posted by Pastor John Loppnow
This is what my best friend in High School called the time he had to spend with his family doing something together. I’m sure many of us grew up with FFF. To tell you the truth I’m grateful for my parents’ making us spend time together as a family doing something “fun” together. Even though, at the time, I probably would have rather gone out with my friends, I’m definitely grateful for those memories. And, in some ways, I wish they had created more of those memories.
As a parent I can see the importance of creating many moments of connection. Some more elaborate such as a family vacation. Or as simple as running errands together. Some of my fondest memories are running errands with my parents. I can remember going to the bookstore with my dad and he said that I could pick out one book. I think he is the reason for my book addiction. (Yes, I take full responsibility for my Dad getting me addicted to books). I also enjoyed our family trips to see extended family on the weekend.
I think its a great idea to intentionally create family memories together. As the kids grow we can increasingly include them in shaping the family memories. We can ask for their input and what they would like to do as a family. So, in the midst of our busy schedules lets slow down to remember to focus on what is most important – one another. Mom and Dad can find creative ways to create the best FFF (Forced Family Fun).
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